Passion cannot maintain marriage
Zhou Tao is born in family of a common cadre of the city austral Anhui the Huaihe River, beijing broadcast institute is taken an examination of when 18 years old (the predecessor of Chinese medium university) , because this knew Ming Hong. Lofty and handsome Ming Hong is 3 taller than Zhou Tao, in him frenzied pursuit falls, zhou Tao falls in love very quickly with him. This feeling, bring to Zhou Tao more not be good, harm however, but also let her become mature, the society knows marriage afresh.
"At that time, broadcasting station of broadcast of the people central assigns after Ming Hong graduates. After 3 years, I also am facing graduate, broadcast the target that major remains capital is very few, if want to do,chair have to answer Anhui, finally, I decide to abandon chairing a dream, leave capital for love. I go to Ming Hongrang first other unit, waited for everything to come down firmly surely, think method is gone to again broadcast this attune. Think method is gone to again broadcast this attune..
Zhou Tao took Beijing public security bureau at that time, the contract that ability transfers must work 5 years below the autograph, very fast He Minghong married, it seems that everything came down firmly surely. At this moment, she begins to wanting to turn the thing of travel.
"Although leave capital smoothly, also had good job, but arrive unit to those writ archives, I feel as dry as a chip but, I discover I did not forget presiding dream at all... Ming Hong allows my content with one's lot however, it is much more difficult to say to leave Beijing, have a such job pretty good. I still am not reconciled to, after public security bureau worked 3 years, I run to volunteer one's services of Beijing TV station. Cannot think of, the leader of Beijing TV station decides try out at once I, be willing to move me to go, public security bureau is not put however, I special have a headache, and the contradiction between I and Ming Hongzhi also arises in this phase. And the contradiction between I and Ming Hongzhi also arises in this phase..
"My heart thought enters a TV station, ke Minghong looked for two friends to fail to help on, very rusty, blame me disturbed cent is insatiable. What to say on my mouth, in the heart very disappointed, good, I do not beg you, does myself go is do sth over and over again still no good? Does myself go is do sth over and over again still no good??
"Later, the friend introduced a person that calls Lu Yun to me, lu Yun is a businessman that makes culture industry, 30 come year old, gentle, meticulous in show consideration for again considerate, it is a mature and stout man. Although be,be acquainted first, but he is perfervid, immediately everywhere activity, help very quickly give my this job solved. Help very quickly give my this job solved..
"In my heart very appreciate Lu Yun, it is occasionally in the home, what hard to avoid and Ming Hong tell cloud having a way is good, he is not silent as the grave, it is fleer, do I feel this person how so narrow? Do I feel this person how so narrow??
"Once, I arrive southern show 78 days, return the home tired tired returns a cold, the face is burned aglowly, ming Hong is not in the home, water bottle is cold, hearth is cool, I fall feebly in the lethargy on the bed. Do not know how long, ring of a phone slept lightly me, it is Lu Yun's sound, I couldn't help crying. Lu Yun asks after understanding a situation, comforted a few, ask I had a meal again? I say to do not have appetite, lu Yun puts down a phone to gave me to order a congee in inn of a congee, after 20 minutes, I sit to eat on the bed went up the congee of warm, eat to weep at the same time at the same time... "
What compare Lu Yun is enthusiastic fast bowel, zhou Tao is to feel Ming Hongtai is chill more. After she is cogitative, decide to divorce eventually: "Although Ming Hong is bigger than my age, but oneself still resemble childlike, how can you come keep an eye on me? Psychological age of the person and social maturity are very so important. I and he is in love when, saw each other advantage only, grow the love that takes fever heat directly, and walk into marriage, two people are to want sureness to get along, each other support a help... the marriage of this paragraph of failure also makes me clear, the so actuation love when the university is too babyish, two people are together, it is insufficient that light has intense emotion. It is insufficient that light has intense emotion..
Warm detail makes moving heart
2002, zhou Tao and Ming Hongzheng type divorced. After half an year, lu Yun proposed to her, zhou Tao is done not have rushed agree.
Zhou Tao says: "In the first paragraph of matrimony, I also had experienced the sort of ripping that what the heart cracks lung, the feeling that a complete home is given birth to forcedly to give birth to departure, as a result later although I still am in yearning family but special be fear of marriage, it is not to want to bear again really the sort of anguish. It is not to want to bear again really the sort of anguish..
And real decision and Lu Yun are together, a person had main effect, this individual, it is Lu Yun's mom.
Zhou Tao says, "Lu Yun is big I am 8 years old, he mature and know very much caress me, but I dare not accept him immediately, because I fear,get hurt again. We the two chance that approach truly are his mom falls ill. His mom saw a few hospitals do not have diagnose at that time, as it happens I have friend in air force total hospital, he entrusts me to be being helped look for a relatively better doctor to give check investigate a patient's condition, cancer of result fish pancreas is terminal, lu Yun wept at that time. See his sadness, in my heart extremely afflictive also. After his mom hospitalization, I also often am visited, also be in this moment, I see Lu Yun is so filial to the mother, he considers all sorts of method treatment, take care of very meticulously to his mom. Take care of very meticulously to his mom..
"Gradually our contact is much, go up personally in Lu Yun, I discovered a lot of good points that do not understand before, also be touched by institute of his filial piety heart. His mom also likes me very much, feel although I am a celebrity but frame of it doesn't matter. After his mom knows we became good later particularly glad also. Although his mother died later, but fall in his effort, the time that still estimates than the doctor lived more than one year more. Tell from some kind of meaning so, his mom should be our go-between. His mom should be our go-between..
Someone says Zhou Tao loves fund, so the decision is married Lu Yun. To this, week Tao Chengqing says, "Lu Yun makes culture industry, although in people look he still calculates,have money quite, but what I take a fancy to him is true not be these. I am known with him is 1995, development of the ability after a lot of years concerns to love, have time of 10 years almost, a lot of friends wondering: You are two understanding so old how is the meeting good went up? I tell friends, he is more composed, should saying is the sort of kind that I prefer, say more specificly to nod, the choice that is me this absolutely junior days has unlike passion takes no account of other factor, through getting along with his, I am OK and affirmative, he is the sort of type that suits me most. He is the sort of type that suits me most..
In happiness of the appreciate in smooth fact
What Zhou Tao says what she has now is the happiest family life that girlhood dreams.
"He is engineering course learning truth, what a lot of people feel those who learn science department is to wearing thick glasses mostly is bookish, indissoluble amorous feelings, actually otherwise. For instance I disclose the detail that come out inadvertently sometimes, he can be written down go up in the heart. Have second when I say to see red-letter day of person of the plead for mercy for sb on newspaper with him, somebody sent 99 roses to the girlfriend, arrived really later the Valentine's Day, I ask him how we pass, he very our not very spends the red-letter day that mention lightly ground says a foreigner. There is a place in my heart at that time depressed. The result returns the home in, push the red rose that opens the door to discover full house is he is decorated suddenly, give me completely a surprise! "
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